When it comes to patronizing the ‘women of easy virtues’, most
people would swear that a lot of married men would not be guilty of such.
Surprisingly, a recent survey says the opposite.
When you look around you, you would be surprised to see ‘very
responsible’ men who supposedly look too innocent to even steal a glance at a
s*x worker, let alone ‘doing it with her, find time to “hang out” with these
women. Shockingly, from recent survey, a good percentage of men (especially
married ones), do patronize prostitutes.
The statistics and reasons given as to why some of these men
prefer sleeping with harlots will shock you. Well, THE TRANSFORM BLOG spoke
with a good number of Nigerian men and it would be worthy to note at this point
that some of these men have at one point or the other paid for s*x before.
1) Men Prefer To Sleep With
Hotter Women
Yes, you read right. Most married/single men complained that the
moment an African woman is married, she losses her guard and most times cannot
even ‘try’ to be as radiant as she used to be before she got married.
“I have been with women and i must say that the hottest women I’ve
ever had s*x with is a s*x workers …Most of these harlots look s*xy, ravishing
and enticing. This kind of ‘hotness’ I am saying can only be prostitutes. My
woman is too used to me to starting feigning ‘hot’!, a top Nigerian civil
servant reveals.
Most Nigerian men prefer a stunning woman to the one that is not
properly dressed.
2) When They Pay For It, They
Derive More Pleasure.
Every man wants to get every
drop of satisfaction from the money he paid for a job. Most men reveal that
they feel more comfortable asking for different styles and s*xual postures from
a prostitutes without their ego being tampered with.
I am paying for it, so I
make sure I get the best out of it. And more so, I can ask her to do any style
for me without me being looked at as a pervert. Asking her to do what I want
won’t make me lose my respect and lots of other things which i can make known
here’‘, 42-year-old Emmanuel from Asaba revealed.
Most of them said there’s something very hot in being able to ask
for what you want in bed and get it, no questions asked. (Although one guy did
admit he paid a prostitute once so that SHE could be in charge.) But generally,
they all admitted to being more open about what they wanted and more physically
satisfied when they paid for s*x. Emotionally, of course, remains to be seen.
3) Men love fantasy.
Trying new things really matter to men a lot when s*x is
concerned. This is because at a point in time, it gets boring and it is the
fantasy and s*xual adventures that you try out that keeps you going. So most
men go out to have this adventure if they cannot get it at home.
“I
like to try things. When I pay a prostitute, I’m not worried about what I ask
for. Nothing shocks them”, Mr kelvin, a 45 year old banker from Benin revealed.
4) Men like the fastest route
to having s*x.
“Getting a prostitute is so
easy: no strings attached, you can choose [the woman you want] before you
purchase, then they arrive at your door. Couldn’t be easier.” All men used different methods of visiting prostitutes.
While some revealed they used some websites, a larger percentage revealed that
they visited a brothel and another set got the prostitute’s number via personal
connection. But they all agreed: it was the quickest way to get s*x when they
felt the urge.
5) They want to avoid
complications.
Men prefer a s*xual experience with no drama and no commitment
whatsoever. For the married ones, they do not want s*x that they have to beg
for, men prefer s*x without all the promises and all.
“Men want to have s*x without all the drama. I just want to have
s*x without the need to made you to beg for it. I want s*x without my wife
reminding me all what needs to be done in the house instead of having s*x at
the moment”, another middle-aged, Businessman revealed.
What do you think about these reasons? Are they good enough
reasons for men to patronize prostitutes? What do you think wives can do to
prevent this?
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