Sunday, 8 May 2016

I Still Love My Husband But He Puts Something In My Vag-ina Before We Can Have S*x

Lack of trust is a major problem in marriage; if a man or woman gets to a stage where they can no longer trust their spouse, every act or move is suspected thus generating a lot of tension in the home.

A man has dragged his wife to court for trying to poison him and inherit his property. But the wife said she has no such intention, that bad things are not a part of her life and that she still loves him.

The wife, 44yrs old Aduke Mustapha, narrated before Igando Customary Court in Lagos how her estranged husband usually poured a substance into her vag-ina whenever he wants to have s*x with her.

The mother of three who is also a fashion designer had lived with her husband for 22 years before she was dragged to court on account of trying to poison her man, 67yrs old Yaya Mustapha.

She denied the allegations that she tried to kill him by poisoning his food, adding that she never planned to take over his property.

“My husband always put his finger inside my vag-ina to pour substance before making love to me. Whenever I queried him, he told me that it was anointing oil he was dropping inside my private part to prevent his sudden death,” she said.

The wife however pleaded with the court not to dissolve the marriage, claiming that she was still in love with her husband.

Please help me to beg him, I'm not ready to divorce my husband because I still love him,” she cried.

Surprisingly, the President of the court, Mr Adegboyega Omilola dissolved the marriage, he said that he was convinced that the couple could no longer live together.

According to him, the husband insisted on divorce after several interventions.

The court has no choice than to dissolve the union in spite of the fact that the wife claims she still loves her husband. The court pronounced the marriage between Yaya Mustapha and Aduke Mustapha dissolved; both parties henceforth ceased to be husband and wife.


“They are free to go their separate ways without any harassment or molestation,” Omilola ruled.

Mr Yaya, a fashion designer, had sought dissolution of his 22-year marriage, alleging threat to his life.

His words: “My wife had made several attempts to kill me in order to inherit my property but always failed. 
She once poisoned my food but I sighted the substance when I was about to eat and I called the attention of our neighbours who confirmed it was poisoned. I informed both family members about it.

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I stopped eating her food and stopped making love to her because she can also get me through s*x. Also, she always pressurised me to sell my property to a strange man and I knew she had a mission.

Saturday, 7 May 2016

LIST OF THINGS YOU NEED TO TEACH YOUR CHILD(REN) AT EARLY AGE

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

14:Always pray for them ask God to protect them cause if He only have the power of protection.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be.
and remember "THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME"
Have a Nice day and Great Week Ahead
And possible forward to all your friends who have children.
By: Rose P Graham